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Every week, it’s our goal to provide you with some questions to process the message deeper, either personally, or with a small group. Here are some questions for you to consider from part 1 of THE GRUDGE series, “I’m Just Over It”, with Pastor Shawn M. Shoup.
- Luke 17:1-5
- Matthew 5:43-44
- Ephesians 4:32
- Matthew 6:14-15
- Psalms 103:10-12
- 1 John 1:9
- Matthew 6:12
- Luke 17: 5
TALK IT OUT
Discuss these questions with someone—maybe a family member, friend, or member of your Connect Group. Use a communication method that works best for your situation.
Find a conversation starter.
- Define the following: betrayal, grace, forgiveness, revenge, and trust.
- What does betrayal look like to you or in your life?
- How does feeling small or unimportant fit with betrayal? Or does it?
- What feelings come up when you talk about betrayal?
Ask a question to get you/your group thinking.
- When betrayed, how has it affected your trust? And in whom?
- In these situations, is it easy to forgive, or hard? Explain.
- Do you have thoughts of revenge? Explain.
Choose a question to create openness.
- What are God’s thoughts/words on revenge and forgiveness?
- How have your boundaries been affected by betrayal?
- If you were to talk through the “forgiving process”, would those boundaries change? Explain.
Be bold and pray with power.
Set me free to see the offender/betrayer as you see them. Show me how to escape the cage of hurt and revenge. Then walk with me each step of the way as I learn your ways. Thank You for showing me how You see me.
Amen and amen.
Commit to a step and live it out this week.
- Ask God to reveal any betrayal you have not dealt with, and any revenge attached to it. Then ask for His help to do what is necessary.
- Examine your life: is there anyone you have betrayed?
- Ask God who you would need to forgive. Do not leave yourself off the list.
- Do a word study on one of the following: offense, hate, strife, love, forgiveness, patience, or one of your choosing.
- Ask God to show you where you need His insights, power, and wisdom the most.
- Talk to Holy Spirit about how He sees your life — the changes He would like to help you make — and record what He tells you.
- Ask for help to determine how ready and willing you are to respond to what He asks of you.
- Pick one or two of those options and take steps to walk them out this week.